Sometimes I get so focussed on my first miscarriage, that I 'forget' the second one. I say forget loosely, since of course I'll never FORGET, but you know... I get so easily distracted.
Like today, for instance. I saw a post from a friend who got pregnant around the same time as me for the second pregnancy, and she's halfway along now. Halfway! My mind has been so wrapped up on the whole 'I would have been full term' thing, that it totally skipped my mind that the second pregnancy/miscarriage would have been closer to the end as well.
That really hurts.
To be sitting here all this time later, and still with no baby in my belly... this really sucks. Today sucks.
Miscarriage does suck. Sorry for your losses.
ReplyDeleteMiscarriage sucks large.
ReplyDeleteHugs.
those are the hardest days. Our miscarriage was in 2010 and I have a friend who was due around the same time. Her son just turned 4, I can't believe I could have had a four year old right now.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry about your MC, they are absolutely cruel.
miscarriage totally sucks. not only for the loss suffered by the mother (I had a friend who was three weeks behind my pregnancy when I miscarried, and so at every point in her pregnancy I was reminded of where I would be, plus 3 weeks...) but we're then not expected to be affected by it for more than, oh, say a few weeks...
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss...
I'm so sorry Aly xx
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry mama. Miscarriage is so, so hard! ((Hugs))
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. I'm sorry.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. I'm sorry.
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